A Gentleman’s Way of Apologizing

Real men know when to say sorry, but only gentlemen are truly aware of how to do it properly. We can consider apologizing as an art, and the art of apologizing comes in three simple steps.

1. Show sincerity. Apologize sincerely to the person/people you have hurt. Take note that words and body language are the key in doing this perfectly. Look at it in the perspective of the other person, use words that the other person would like to hear as you apologize. Moreover, keep your body language simple and open for the other party to see sincerity in your action/s.

2. State what you didn’t mean. You have to admit error and explain what you did not intend to this. This step will humble yourself, which the other person would greatly appreciate. You start your conversation admitting that you are at fault is probably the hardest step, but is the most vital.

3. Say what you actually mean. Now this is the time where you clarify what you truly meant. By this time you should be ready to explain yourself here completely and concisely. You will also need to accept constructive criticisms, which the other party may provide.

Again, apologizing has never been easy. It will always be a humbling experience for all, but do know the benefits of learning how to apologize properly and when is the right time to do so.